Why Hostility Can Bring People Closer Together
Scientific American“Hostile mediators" can be a surprisingly powerful tool in resolving conflict.
Read when you’ve got time to spare.
In polarized times, it’s tempting to retreat further into our echo chambers. Instead, consider how much we all have to gain by connecting with those who see things differently than we do. We’ve brought together some of the best advice on how to have a productive conversation with someone you disagree with, as well as proven tips for how to change someone’s mind, and the science behind how our brains process different methods of persuasion.
Whether you’re trying to see eye to eye with a colleague, repair a relationship, or attempt to untangle a loved one’s problematic beliefs, our guide will arm you with the techniques you need.
Image by Malte Mueller/Getty Images
“Hostile mediators" can be a surprisingly powerful tool in resolving conflict.
Listening may not be the most exciting part of conversation, but it’s essential if you want to have a meaningful exchange with another person.
Sometimes, workplace conflict seems insurmountable. Here’s how to get to a place of agreement.
Missy spent more than five years getting her husband to leave a cult, but the breakthrough was simple.
Although they make me feel like I’m treading on thin ice, these difficult conversations are important to have.
Much of leadership boils down to turning adversaries into allies.
Here’s some advice on how to go about it.
How to avoid a big argument about politics with your loved ones.
A clever experiment shows it's surprisingly easy to change someone’s political views, revealing how flexible we are.
Truth and accuracy are not the only things that matter to the human mind. Humans also seem to have a deep desire to belong.
Yes, says sociologist Robb Willer—but the effort needs to be respectful and mutual.
These scientists keep proving that reducing prejudice is possible. It’s just not easy.
“I started to feel like I was becoming part of this community on Twitter. And that was the first time that I really felt ashamed of what I was doing.”
Not talking about it is no longer an option, so we need to find a way to talk about it better.